Signs That She’s in It for the Money

    By Mynt Models

    Publish on September 2, 2008

    Categories: Communication Dating HowTo Luxury Wealth Women

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    When finding a new connection or entering a new relationship, it’s natural to wonder about the other person’s motives and intentions. While most people enter relationships for genuine emotional connection and mutual respect, some may have ulterior motives, such as financial gain. Being aware of the signs that someone may be primarily interested in your financial status can help you avoid heartache and disappointment in the future. 


    But before discussing the signs, let’s delve first into why women look for someone wealthy.


    Why do women look for a wealthy, successful man?


    If given a choice, most women would opt for a wealthy man but why?


    The search for a compatible partner is a complex process that various factors can influence. While each individual’s preferences and motivations may vary, some women may be attracted to wealthy men for a variety of reasons. Financial stability, status, lifestyle, and traditional gender roles are some of the factors that can play a role in why some women seek a wealthy partner. It’s essential to keep in mind that this pursuit does not make her a gold digger.


    If you still need to figure it out, there are some straightforward ways to test her interest. While money doesn’t bring happiness, it certainly makes life easier. Everybody enjoys the finer things in life, but it’s a different matter if the woman you’re dating is only in for the money.


    Disposable income gives one a better choice. A woman’s desire for money may not necessarily be because of the material things money can bring or a passion for ‘the high life.’ That said, we have outlined below the reasons a woman might seek wealth and how to avoid those who seek it in unhealthy ways.


    Here are some behaviors that may indicate that a woman is more interested in money than building a genuine connection with you.


     Reasons a Woman Looks for a Wealthy, Successful Man

    Warning signs that you are dating a gold digger



    If a lady has lived a gracious, privileged life, she will never want to settle for anything less. This is not her fault and is quite understandable. She has been raised with specific standards and expectations, which may make her choosier about the gentlemen she spends her dating time with. There is nothing wrong or shameful about wanting to maintain the lifestyle to which one is accustomed.

    In contrast, a woman who is after your wealth is more likely to come from a lower-class background and is therefore seeking to raise her social status. There is a likelihood that she wants her lifestyle to be paid for by you, or by any other gentleman for that matter.


    Security and Protection

    Both men and women strive for security and protection. Women are programmed biologically to give birth to children, and without being completely aware of it, they might look for a partner who will provide for future offspring and offer protection and safety. She might unconsciously filter her male dates with the same conditions, whether or not she chooses to bear children.

    Being left with a child to care for after a man deserts her is not an option for these refined, successful ladies. As a result, it makes her more discerning about whom she dates. She cannot work and simultaneously raise children or maintain a household. Such a woman needs a competent gentleman who can maintain the income to support her lifestyle on top of all that.

    Many women choose to stay at home with their children while they are young. Putting her career on hold is a reality she may have to face. Having the confidence that she can do this without fear or worry makes a wealthy man all the more desirable.




    Most women also like to be sure that they can count on nice clothing and cosmetics, beauty treatments, and a lovely home, as well as enjoyable and relaxing family holidays. Limited funds generally cause stress, not relaxation. Think about what you can offer a lady. She is not obliged to offer you herself, maid services, or companionship for any less than she believes she is worth, and you are not entitled to it either.


    Ask yourself a few questions. What can you give her in return? How much is exclusive access to her company and care worth to you? This is a mutual agreement between two people. Focus on your future and your career to ensure you can offer the very best, not only to a potential life partner but to yourself too.


    Still, despite any gentleman’s generosity, if it seems never enough for a woman, you might find yourself in the company of a selfish lady who thinks only of coveting your wealth.




    If you have no prospects and no money or job security, it will not be easy to maintain a relationship with a lady who has expectations of a healthy, capable man with good genes. Love may conquer all, but it does not pay the bills. Lack of success is often coupled with lower education, lazy conduct, ideals, inadequate mental capacity, emotional or psychological issues, or an inability to commit or handle responsibility. None of these qualities make a desirable partner or future father of one’s offspring. Very often, a search for wealth is simply a search for quality.


    How to Test a Woman’s Interests

    There are, however, some warning signs that the woman you are with is, in fact, in it for the money. To test whether a woman is seeking quality and security versus someone seeking to steal from you, pretend you have a little less money than you earn. 


    Change of Car

    See if she likes your other qualities first. Hire a BMW that is a few years old to drive instead of arriving in your latest model of Lamborghini or Rolls Royce. You might change your car and tell her it’s been a difficult month and you must downgrade for a while. See how eagerly she accepts your calls after that. You might allow her to pay for something small like a drink or a magazine, saying you need to go to the ATM. See if she is upset by that small outlay.


    Choice of Restaurant

    Choose a comfortable, tasteful 3-star restaurant instead of a 5-star dining establishment. Say you felt like something a bit more authentic tonight. Does she relish the experience or try to graciously enjoy it for your comfort? Wear comfortable clothing without flashing labels, and remove high-end jewelry or watches. If she likes you as a decently successful gentleman, she will deserve your extremely successful status. You can comfortably let her go if she seems unimpressed by your efforts or is not humble and gracious enough to appreciate them. 

    If under circumstances that you have revealed your wealth and financial worth, she suddenly becomes very affectionate towards you, you’ll know for sure that she’s in it for your money. If you are only attractive to her when you have money, she is not the refined company worth your time and attention.


    How Elite Escorts Differ

    An elite escort is a highly educated, cultured, and refined woman skilled in social situations. They are the ideal companion for gentlemen to bring to social events and business meetings while providing intimate companionship.

    Some less tasteful types might go as far as calling them ‘gold diggers,’ but that is far from the truth. In reality, elite escorts work independently for themselves. She is upfront about her intentions and has a set fee for her time. It is an honest business arrangement in which she wi

    Others might chime in that a gold digger is like an escort, only smarter. And some would argue that things are entirely the other way around: the escort is the capable businesswoman, while a gold digger has no skills of her own other than sleeping her way to the top, however unscrupulous that might sound. Some would even argue that there is a good mix of the two within each demographic, and it is up to the gentleman to individually weed out the greedy and find the true hearts of gold.

    The best thing to do is to avoid women who show signs of financial selfishness. Aim for a woman of quality who will not expect you to sacrifice too much of yourself to provide for her.

    With a good dating agency like Mynt, you can feel secure knowing that the elite escorts not only match your preferences and interests but are all elegant and refined ladies who are not after your wealth. Mynt operates with integrity and only recruits models of the same quality