You can spend your whole life wondering what women actually want, but it’s really very simple, so don’t overthink it. But they won’t tell you. You need to figure it out. They like to think you know that much about them. She wants you to do things for her because you want to do them for her, NOT because you know she wants you to do them for her. Still confused lol?
To begin with, they want to feel appreciated. But they’re not going to tell you, “I want you to appreciate me.” That’s your job to figure out. So don’t be afraid to compliment your date. Some men don’t want to give her too many compliments because they think it makes them look weak – not so. Only a strong, confident, fearless man can appreciate a woman, make her feel beautiful, and hold her up to his level with honor.
Some think compliments will “make her head too big.” While there are the occasional narcissistic types, who may respond this way–in which case, give her what she wants, so she remembers you well, and leave it there at the end of the date–a typical woman feels appreciated and safe when her date shows interest in her. Ladies spend a lot of time on their appearance, so when someone notices and compliments them, they feel they haven’t wasted their time. It also gives her a little reminder that she is feminine and desirable. She will never tell you that.
Women also like to be heard and considered, so listen to her. She’s not likely to say, “I want to be heard and understood” – You’re just supposed to KNOW this! Well, it is pretty simple, respectful behavior. Ask questions to show you are actively interested and that you are listening and you have understood. Getting to know her better will lead to a mutually satisfying relationship. Being considerate of her feelings will show her that you care. No one likes selfishness, and every woman appreciates a man who also considers her feelings and thoughts necessary.
Women also want security and financial stability and usually work hard to achieve this. Again, only a few women will find it very feminine to come right out and say, ‘I want to feel safe, physically, emotionally, financially.’ Once again, this is fairly common sense and something you should already know. These are two of the most significant considerations for a woman when appraising a man. They’ll also want to be sure that you value the same things and that you also strive for the same peace of mind.
A woman wants to feel like the center of your world, but she definitely won’t tell you that! She wants to feel protected, cherished, and honored. Make her feel like the most beautiful woman in the world and treat her as an equal, with the utmost respect and care. They love a man to be confident without being arrogant and for you to be kind without being weak. Women generally like you to be successful without losing your morality.
Other desirable qualities are honesty, integrity, and loyalty. A woman wants to know why you could have any woman you wanted, but you chose her. You will also earn her respect if you talk openly about issues instead of avoiding things. Discuss problem areas before they escalate instead of cheating to escape. These are the signs of a robust and noble man with soul and heart.—a quality gentleman.
Women want to know where they stand so they have choices and always feel safe. But like many other things, she just won’t tell you to see if you can figure it out. It’s all part of the filtering process she goes through to find a suitable mate who meets her exacting standards. A man who always stands by his word and is loyal and fair is easy to fall in love with.