The Secret to Getting the Best from a Woman

    By Mynt Models

    Publish on April 12, 2008

    Categories: Communication Dating Women

    There is one secret to getting the best mood, treatment, and response from any woman. It’s not too difficult to do, and once you’ve mastered it, you’ll always get the best from the opposite gender. The one thing women seek to feel fulfilled, relaxed, safe, and desirable is the ability to make them laugh.


    Remember, every person is unique, and what works for one woman may not work for another. Even humor itself is subjective. But it is a known fact: a happy and satisfied lady brings her best self to any partnership.


    So what can you do? Here are some steps to guide you.


    1. Lay down a positive foundation.


    A good start would be leveling the mood. Humor won’t come naturally if you’re feeling down in any way. Keep a positive outlook. Being able to see the positive in any situation is a charming character trait that will easily impress any woman.


    If you don’t know how to be positive, try listing three things you’re grateful for. Feeling positive is essential to create the right attitude to build humor. If you’re in a good mood yourself, it will be easier for you to make her laugh.



    2. Know your audience.


    Understanding a woman’s sense of humor and what she finds funny is the first step in making her laugh. As you converse with her and go on more dates together, pay attention to her personality, interests, and sense of humor. Different women find different things hilarious—some women prefer sarcastic or witty humor, others like lighthearted jokes and silly things. 


    That said, be sensitive to her cultural background and beliefs. Certain types of humor may not be appropriate, and she’ll definitely be turned off if you make the wrong joke. You can also observe her body language, facial expressions, and responses to see which things she might find funny and which she finds off-putting.


    How to make a woman laugh


    3. Be playful and fun.


    Women often appreciate playfulness and a lighthearted approach. Be bold and use jokes, puns, and other playful techniques to make her laugh. Tease her a little, although not unkindly or mercilessly. If it’s a first date, she might feel nervous. Look at the fun things around you and make little jokes, laughter will remediate her nerves, and she’ll be laughing in no time.


    Being a happy, cheerful gentleman is a major turn-on for most ladies. It also implies that you have great confidence and are not afraid to be a little foolish for her.


    4. Use self-deprecating humor.

    Using self-deprecating humor involves making fun of yourself in a lighthearted way. It can effectively make a woman laugh because it shows that you don’t take yourself too seriously and can be humble and relatable. However, it’s important to use self-deprecating humor in moderation and not to the point where it becomes harmful to your self-esteem.

    While this type of humor can be a great way to connect with a woman, it’s important not to overdo it. If you constantly put yourself down, it can come across as attention-seeking or insincere. Surely, that’s not how you’d want to go as a gentleman. Use it sparingly, just enough for it to be effective.


    5. Tell funny stories about your past.

    Telling funny stories about yourself or your past can be a great way to make a woman laugh and build a connection with her. By sharing humorous anecdotes, you can show your personality and sense of humor and demonstrate that you don’t take yourself too seriously.

    It creates intimacy between you and your date. It means you’ve let your guard down and let someone into your world. She will be thrilled that you are sharing personal details—we all have those stories that can make people laugh. Your date might even reciprocate, building the rapport between you further.


    6. Let your personality shine through.

    Being yourself is crucial when it comes to making a woman laugh because it allows you to show your authentic personality and sense of humor. When you try to be someone you’re not or use humor that doesn’t come naturally to you, it can come across as insincere or forced. This can make it harder to connect with the woman you’re talking to and can make it less likely that she will find you funny.

    Any lady will know if you’re being pretentious or unnatural. When you are true to yourself and use humor that comes naturally to you, you are more likely to make the woman you’re talking to laugh and build a genuine connection with her. This is because your humor will come across as more authentic and relatable, showing her that you are comfortable in your own skin and don’t take yourself too seriously.


    7. Be a lighthearted gentleman.

    An easygoing gentleman can effortlessly exude charisma. Being a lighthearted gentleman means you can bring a lighthearted approach to life. It means you can use your good-natured humor to turn around any tense or challenging situation. Being lighthearted also implies emotional stability. A man who can handle life’s ups and downs with humor and grace is seen as a strong and stable partner, which can be very attractive to women. And when she’s attracted, laughter comes so easily.

    For example, during a heated discussion between colleagues, the one who can keep a sense of humor in their observation of the other party generally wins, as they don’t allow the conversation to get to them. Or between lovers, the discussion can escalate to an argument – but if one party retains a light sense of humor and tells the other, ‘you’re cute when you’re mad,’ then the argument dissolves into laughter or romance. There is no need for anything to escalate if one person knows how to have a sense of humor or a light heart about things.


    You don’t have to be a stand-up comedian. Having a good sense of humor will come in handy when dating, whether with a life partner, a casual introduction, or an elite escort.

    Making a woman laugh will ease any nervousness during early dates. Ladies always look for a good sense of humor on a date. If you’re an overall good-natured gentleman, she will likely enjoy your company much more. Even if you’re on a date with a confident woman, making her smile and laugh will go a long way to ensuring your evening is memorable.