The Truth About Gold Diggers

Is she a gold-digger or not?Wealthy and successful men who are dating may be accustomed to attracting various types of women, but how can they tell the difference between someone who wants to rip them off and someone who is in it for the long haul? Who will be there through thick and thin, and who is a fair-weather-girlfriend?

A greedy gold digger may not be obvious from the start, she’s just a girl who likes nice things.  But her aim is to claim and share your wealth, as soon as possible. Not in an honest way like a woman who would give you children in return. And not in a business sense like a colleague or professional elite companion. Just a girl who wants to get as much out of you as possible, while the going is good, then leave.

In order to achieve her goal, she will be prove to be charming, attentive and knowledgeable about your world.  She will do and say anything to make you like her, or believe the relationship is real.  She will have done her research into how rich people like to spend their money. She may also dress in expensive clothes and wear high end jewelry, to fool you into thinking she is a genuinely well bred young lady.

When you first start to date and get to know each other, pay attention to the questions she’ll tactfully ask you. She will want to find out just exactly how much you are worth, so she doesn’t waste any of her precious time. If you are not worth enough, you will soon be dumped as she moves on to the next guy.  And take that as a get-out-of-jail-free-card!  A blessing of freedom from a thief.  Avoid these women at all costs. There is no happiness at the end of the road.

In fact, it is sometimes wise to understate your wealth, as a test to filter out these types. Create a little side-life with a simple apartment, a decent bus simple car, and see who sticks around. But to be honest, if she is not after your money, she wouldn’t be asking these questions or snooping in the first place.

So, how do you protect yourself? Not all women are gold diggers. A woman of quality is smart. She wants to maintain the lifestyle that she’s accustomed to, and may already have her own wealth. You need to listen carefully to what she says to ascertain why she’s trying to keep herself exclusive to rich, affluent men. These women are in it for the long haul. They are simply looking for a competent partner who can offer financial security and who can sustain their quality of life. They are not out to rip you off, they are looking for someone similar to themselves in terms of sophistication.

So, get to know your dates well so you can make an informed choice about their intentions. Don’t be blinded by looks or words. Actions speak louder, as they say.